Specific list of qualities:

Spirit-controlled Christian
Jesus is #1 in his life, not just an ornament
Broken; understands how to rely totally upon Jesus
Ministry-minded; wherever he is, he is available
Motivator; man of vision, concerned about lost souls
Sensitive spirit; in tune to the needs of others
Understands the awesome responsibility of a husband to his wife
Humble enough to be a disciple (teachable) and able to disciple others
Man of prayer; he knows the key to success is his private time with God
Family man; he desires to have children and raise them properly for God's glory